"It's your fault you're miserable! Quit trying to blame it all on the rest of us!"
WAY TO FUCKING GO, DAD.
Seriously, this is why I just politely smile and nod when people say they're praying for me about my cancer or when they put forth the idea that "God" can somehow heal me.
Folks, you'd have just about as much luck with the Easter Bunny and Santa Claus. God allows tragedy and shit to happen to good people because he doesn't exist. This is not a hard argument.
I really, really try to be one of those nice, polite atheists as I despise the identity politics that has sprung up around atheism as a fashion BUT JUST SOMETIMES....
So wait god could have prevented you from being hit by a drunk driver, right? So he just made you crippled and wheelchair bound to somehow test your faith? What a fucked up god.