They've accepted that Junior is going to be the first WeaselJohnson to not get into Harvard. They're just hoping that he'll be able to get into his safety. He.... struggles academically.
Kevin will marry a very nice, very smart, girl, but she'll notice that his family always looks at her in pity out the corners of their eyes, as if they are saying she could have done better. This is only slightly less uncomfortable to her than the brazen gratefulness that she married him that they show when he's in the room.
They never vacation at home and few have seen their photo album.